The Seven Principles Workshop for Couples is based on the internationally acclaimed research of Dr. John Gottman as presented in his New York Times bestselling book – The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. This educational workshop is designed to help couples improve their friendship and conflict management skills.

Relationships are hard work. We all know that. The majority of our entertainment (love songs, movies, jokes) are based on that exact reality.

The issues in a relationship often get amplified when people have different ways of thinking, communicating, and perceiving the world around them.

I see this EVERY DAY in my work with neurodiverse couples. Whether you’re both autistic, have ADHD, or have different neurotypes, it can feel like you’re speaking completely different languages.

And I see it in my own marriage too. Sometimes I feel like I’m talking about apples, and he’s talking about robot elephants wearing polka dot hats. 🙄

This often leads to lots of arguments both of you feeling disconnected from each other.

The good news is you can take control with research-backed strategies to prevent fights and strengthen your relationship!

The 7 Principles workshop is an evidence-based program to help couples prevent arguments and build a loving, healthy, long-lasting relationship.

The best part? It's not a boring lecture! I hate boring lectures.

This is a no fluff, no woo-woo workshop for couples who want concrete strategies for strengthening their relationships.

As an experienced therapist and educator, I want you to know you're in good hands.

Here's how the workshop goes...

  • Bite-sized lessons on the skills

  • Video demos of couples using the strategies

  • Examples of what not to do

  • You practicing the skill with your partner

  • Questions & Answers

And no need to talk about your issues with other people. You practice with your partner and only your partner!

You'll learn how to...

  • Build a solid friendship and show more appreciation for each other.

  • Keep the spark alive and strengthen your connection.

  • Work through disagreements without the drama.

  • Figure out which problems can be solved and how to handle the ones that can’t.

  • Get on the same page to feel more connected.

  • Learn simple, lasting skills to keep your relationship strong.

Invest in yourself and your relationship with the 7 Principles Workshop!

(offered online so you can even do it in your PJ's 😉

This Workshop Includes:

  • 6 hour workshop (with breaks) jam packed full of evidence-based strategies and expert guidance by a licensed therapist and educator (Value: $1200)

  • Modifications and strategies specifically designed for neurodiverse couples (Value: $200)

  • The 7 Principles Couples digital workbooks and Love Maps and Open-Ended Questions digital card decks (Value: $35)

Total Value: $1435

But you can join for just $300!

Register at least 14 days before the workshop starts and get an early bird discount of $50 off!

This workshop is for you if...

  • All age groups and relationship stages (engaged, married, in a relationship, long term, etc.)

  • Your relationship is good overall and you're looking to strengthen or enhance it

  • You find that you argue a lot and want to get out of the cycle of fighting about the same issues over and over

  • You're looking to spice things up!

This workshop is NOT for you if...

  • One or both of you is experiencing severe emotional distress

  • There has been emotional abuse and/or domestic violence

  • There is active addiction present in your relationship (alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex addiction, etc.)

  • One or both of you have serious mental illness

Upcoming Workshops:

march 15, 2025

9am-4pm MT (online)

$300

  • Register by 3/1/25 and use code "MARCH15" to get $50 off!

june 1, 2025

9am-4pm MT (online)

$300

  • Register by 5/18/25 and use code "JUNE1" to get $50 off!

september 13, 2025

9am-4pm MT (online)

$300

  • Register by 8/30/25 and use code "SEPT13" to get $50 off!

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I don't like talking about my personal problems with a group?

That's totally fine! Everything you talk about with your partner is private.

Can I come by myself if my partner doesn't want to?

Unfortunately, no. Because this workshop involves time for you to interact with your partner, you wouldn't get much out of it coming on your own.

Do we need to read the 7 Principles book?

Nope! It can be a great resource to have for the future, but my job in the workshop is to teach you the skills outlined in the book.

Is this like couples therapy?

Nope! This is an educational workshop designed for couples who are in a good place overall and want to make their relationship even stronger. Although Lianna is a licensed therapist, this workshop is NOT therapy.

What if something comes up and we can't make it?

We understand that life happens and your availability may change. If you are unable to attend for any reason, please contact Lianna directly at [email protected] and we'll be happy to transfer your registration to a future workshop date.

About Your Facilitator

Lianna Purjes is a therapist and neurodivergence coach helping adults and parents of neurodivergent kids navigate life in a neurotypical world. With master’s degrees in special education and clinical social work, plus almost 20 years of experience, she’s all about making life work for you—not the other way around.

Over the years, Lianna has worked with countless clients who were on the verge of giving up because they never got the tools they actually needed to succeed. It’s like going to the doctor for a sprained ankle and getting a toothbrush instead—great for cleaning your teeth, but not so helpful for walking.

Lianna understands that neurodivergent brains don’t thrive on cookie-cutter advice. Instead of handing you the same old “fixes” that don’t actually work, she’s here to give you real, practical tools that match your unique needs. No more feeling stuck—just the support you need to step confidently onto your own path and keep moving forward.

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